Make the ceremony unique to you and your story! While there are traditions, they exist because someone did them and continued to practice. The ceremony is where it all begins and the most important moment of your day! Have a ring blessing ceremony where all of your guests pass your bands around and say a small prayer or wish as they hold these close. While writing your own vows can seem like a big process, consider talking to your partner about certain phrases, such as “I promise to,” “I will,” and “I am excited to.” You fill in your responses as your heart produces your answers and it’s always so darling to hear what your significant other declares.